How to Use an Anal Dildo
So, you're ready to take your backdoor game to the next level and try out an anal dildo? Well then, you're about to embark on an adventure that will change your sex life forever! But before you dive head first (or butt first!) into this new world of pleasure, there are a few things you need to know.
We talked to two experts in the field of all things bootiful to bring you the ultimate guide to using an anal dildo. From picking the right toy to getting your ass ready, we've got you covered!
Pick the Perfect Anal Dildo: A Toy for Every Booty
First things first: you need to pick the right dildo for your needs. The classic anal dildo design has a tapered tip for easier penetration and a flat base to prevent unwanted and dangerous…suckage.
However, in terms of size, there is a whole world of options available, from tiny anal dildos for the uninitiated to massive monsters that wouldn’t look out of place on safari.
According to sex therapist and anal dildo enthusiast, Dr Bootylove, when it comes to anal dildos, size definitely does matter!
“You want to start small and work your way up. A toy that's too big can cause you some serious pain and discomfort, especially while you are getting used to anal play. Look for something that's small, smooth and has a tapered tip for easy insertion. You can also buy an anal training kit with plugs in multiple sizes to track your progress and slowly stretch your butt.”
Prep Your Booty: Don't Skip the Lube
Before you start playing with your new anal dildo, you need to make sure your booty is ready. That means plenty of lube and a little prep work.
To help get an expert’s opinion, we turned to popular sex toy vlogger and self-proclaimed lube connoisseur, Lana Del Anal, for advice:
"Lube is your best friend when it comes to anal play because it helps to smooth things along. You want to use a high-quality, water-based lube that's safe for your toy and your body. And don't be shy with it – there really is no such thing as too much lube!"
Lana also recommends using a smaller butt plug or your fingers to get your booty ready before inserting your dildo:
“Start slow and work your way further inside. The trick is to relax, not try to force it and remember to breathe. If you feel any resistance, take a moment, add some more lube and try again!”
Get Your Mind in the Game: Relax and Enjoy the Ride
Now that you're lubed up and your ass is primed and ready, can then start to insert your dildo. It’s crucial that you don’t try to force it and that you stay nice and relaxed the whole time.
If you are using an anal dildo with a partner, make sure you communicate with them constantly to ensure that they are comfortable and aren’t being stretched beyond their limits.
Dr Bootylove explains:
"Your mindset is key when it comes to anal play. You want to be relaxed, comfortable and ready to explore. Take some deep breaths, relax your body, and focus on the sensations."
Go Full-Force Anal Einstein: Time to Experiment
There are many ways to enjoy an anal dildo so experimentation is key. Some people like to use an anal dildo for anal penetration and stimulation or for targeting the male P-spot. Others like to leave an anal dildo in while receiving simultaneous vaginal penetration because the anal dildo pushes up against the vaginal wall, tightening everything up and enhancing the experience.
As Lana says:
"It's all about exploring your own body and finding what feels good for you. Don't be afraid to try new things, but always listen to your body and stop if something doesn't feel right."
Clean Up and Store Your Toy: Keep Your Booty Buddy Safe and Clean
After you've had your fun, it's important to clean up and store your toy properly. Anal dildo hygiene is essential for keeping your booty buddy safe and clean.
Dr Bootylicious recommends washing your dildo with warm water and antibacterial soap after each use: "Make sure to clean it thoroughly, especially around the base and any ridges or bumps dry it off completely before storing it."
If you're like Lana and have a whole collection of toys, she suggests investing in a toy box or bag to keep them organized and separate:
"I have a whole drawer dedicated to my anal dildos and I keep them all in individual bags to keep them clean and organized. It's the best way to keep your booty buddies happy and healthy!"
Final Thoughts
Using an anal dildo can be a life-changing experience but it can also be a little daunting if you are new to the world of anal play. The most important thing is always to take it slow, start with the smallest possible anal dildo and have fun experimenting.
As Lana Del Anal says:
"Your booty is a beautiful thing, and it deserves to be worshipped and explored. So choose the right anal dildo, grease yourself up like a horny turkey and have fun!"