How to Use a Dildo as a Male

Alright, gents, it's time to talk about something that's been kept on the down-low for far too long. We're breaking the glass ceiling, tearing down the walls and shouting it from the rooftops: dildos are not just for women, and it's high time we embrace the world of possibilities male dildos offer. Unfortunately, there's still a stigma surrounding men using dildos, but we're here to tell you that it's time to shake that off. 

Who says boys can't play with toys? Let’s demystify the debate about dildos for dudes.

The Dildo Lowdown: What's the Hype About?

So, what's the deal with dildos for men? It's simple: dildos can offer a fantastic way to explore your body and discover new sensations. In fact, there are loads of ways that dildos can only be used by men, including:

The Prostate Playbook

Often referred to as the “P-spot” or "male G-spot," the prostate is a goldmine of untapped erotic potential. Located a couple of inches inside the rectum, this walnut-sized gland is just begging to be stimulated. When done right, prostate play can lead to mind-blowing, full-body orgasms that leave you weak in the knees. Dildos are the perfect tools to help you locate your P-spot, stimulate it directly and unlock these elusive prostate orgasms 

Double Trouble: Dildo Plus Masturbation

Looking to crank up the heat on your solo sessions? Try using a dildo while simultaneously stroking your penis. The combination of internal and external stimulation can create explosive results that'll have you wondering how you ever got off without it. This is especially true when you find the right rhythm, hitting both the prostate and the penile sweet spots at the same time.

Partner Up: Sharing the Dildo Love

If you're lucky enough to have a partner who's game for some dildo experimentation, you're in for a real treat. Introducing a dildo into your bedroom shenanigans can open up a whole new world of shared pleasure. Let your partner take the reins and control the toy, or vice versa and explore the exciting dynamics of trust, vulnerability, and intimacy that come with it.

The Perfect Fit: Choosing Your Dildo Wingman

Of course, to enjoy all of the above dildo delights, you're first going to need a trusty sidekick. But with so many options out there, it's easy to get overwhelmed. Fear not! 

Here are some key factors to consider when picking out your new male dildo:

• Material: Opt for body-safe, non-porous materials like silicone, glass or stainless steel. They're easy to clean and perfect for a wild night in. Silicone provides a more flexible, softer dildo experience while glass and stainless steel are less forgiving, sleeker sex toys.
  
  
• Size: It's not always about size, but in this case, it's essential to start small if you're a beginner. Choose the tiniest toy possible until you get used to dildo sensations and stretches then work your way up to bigger dildos. As the old saying goes, "Don't bite off more than you can chew," or in this case, "insert."
  
  
• Shape: The optimum shape of the dildo really depends on what you are using it for. For example, you will need to look for a dildo with a curve or a bulbous head if you're aiming to stimulate your prostate while a straight dildo will work great for regular play. Whichever you choose, a flared base is usually advisable for safety reasons as you definitely don’t want any unplanned and embarrassing trips to the hospital.

Pregame Ritual: Prepping for Your Dildo Debut

Before you go full steam ahead, there are a few crucial steps you need to take to ensure a smooth and enjoyable ride. 

First, cleanliness is key. 

Make sure your toy is squeaky clean and your hands are washed. 

Next, don't forget the lube! 

The anus doesn't self-lubricate like other parts of the body, so you'll need a generous helping of lube to make things comfortable and pleasurable.

Finally, take your time to relax and get in the mood. 

Whether that's watching a steamy video, lighting some candles or just focusing on your breathing, being relaxed will make the experience much more enjoyable.

Final Thoughts

Dildos for men are an uncharted territory that's ripe for exploration. By choosing the right toy, prepping yourself properly and being ready to experiment, you can unlock a whole new world of pleasure that you never knew existed. There is nothing quite like boys and their toys and with so many amazing male dildos on the market, you are sure to find one that pushes all your buttons!